Yeah, that was so huge for me too... being uncertain still sometimes feels "wrong" somehow, but I now recognize that not being sure is the only right answer to any questions about the future. And playing without surety is now wonderful and fun!
Saalik, this was so well done! I appreciate the book recs, the insight around quitting and just the way you organized this whole piece. I actually had a fight the other day with my spouse and I sent him a substack article to read. Great work!!
I enjoyed this reading in many ways.
Iām so glad! Thank you šš½
I also enjoyed The Three Marriages. It helped give me courage to commit when I wasn't sure, and realize being sure isn't the point.
Yeah, that was so huge for me too... being uncertain still sometimes feels "wrong" somehow, but I now recognize that not being sure is the only right answer to any questions about the future. And playing without surety is now wonderful and fun!
Saalik, this was so well done! I appreciate the book recs, the insight around quitting and just the way you organized this whole piece. I actually had a fight the other day with my spouse and I sent him a substack article to read. Great work!!
Thank you Sadia!!